If you ask me how I want to be remembered, it is as a winner... A winner is somebody who gave his best effort, who has tried the hardest they possibly can...who has utilized every ounce of energy and strength within them to accomplish something. It doesn't mean that they accomplished it or failed, it means they've given it their best. That's a winner.

Stronger Than Cancer: Treasured Insights from the Hearts and Homes of Families Fighting Cancer (ed. 2002)