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We don't have to do it any better than we can — ever. Do our best for the moment, then let it go. If we have to redo it, we can do our best in another moment, later.
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If that person doesn't want to be in your life, just let him or her leave.
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Even if the most important person in your world rejects you, you are still real, and you are still okay.
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Resentments are hardened chunks of anger. They loosen up and dissolve with forgiveness and letting go.
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It's not what we don't know that hurts us, people say. It's what we believe is true that isn't that does the damage.
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If we are unhappy without a relationship, we'll probably be unhappy with one as well. A relationship doesn't begin our life; a relationship doesn't become our life. A relationship is a continuation of life.
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I've learned that I have many, many soul mates here, and they come to me at the right time and in the right place. They come to help me when I'm lost, and each comes with different sets of lessons for me — usually, always, my most intense lessons — the ones my soul came here to learn.
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Nurtured, nourished people, who love themselves and care for themselves, are the delight of the Universe.
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Anger is a warning signal. It points to problems.
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It's so easy to look around and notice what's wrong. It takes practice to see what's right.
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When we don't ask for what we want and need, we discount ourselves.
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Caring works. Caretaking doesn't. We can learn to walk the line between the two.
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Today I will let go of my need for approval and my need to be liked. Instead, I will choose to like and approve of myself. The people who count (including me) will respect me when I'm true to who I really am.
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Melody Beattie
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July 2, 1948
(age 76)
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Melody Beattie is an American author of self-help books on codependent relationships.
Known for:
Codependent No More (1986)
The Language of Letting Go (1990)
Beyond Codependency (1989)
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