Our most basic emotional need is not to fall in love but to be genuinely loved by another, to know a love that grows out of reason and choice, not instinct. I need to be loved by someone who chooses to love me, who sees in me something worth loving.

The Five Love Languages Gift Edition: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate (ed. Moody Publishers, 2009) - ISBN: 9781575678863