Our normal tendency is to feel dissatisfied and to criticize our body, speech, and mind - My body is out of shape; my voice is unpleasant; my mind is confused. - We are so caught up in this pointless, neurotic habit of criticism that we disparage others as well as ourselves. This is extremely damaging.

Introduction to Tantra: The Transformation of Desire (ed. Simon and Schuster, 2005) - ISBN: 9780861719976