Being ambiguously flamboyant really does help. I've had so many people come up to me and be like, 'I felt OK to come out of the closet after you said this.' When someone says that to me — it's not an event I've ever been through, so I don't know what to compare it to. I don't think I even understand how important that is to someone's life.


"This Charming Man," interview, Out.com (August 2008)


Being ambiguously flamboyant really does help. I've had so many people come up to me and be like, 'I felt OK to come out of the closet after you said ...

Being ambiguously flamboyant really does help. I've had so many people come up to me and be like, 'I felt OK to come out of the closet after you said ...

Being ambiguously flamboyant really does help. I've had so many people come up to me and be like, 'I felt OK to come out of the closet after you said ...

Being ambiguously flamboyant really does help. I've had so many people come up to me and be like, 'I felt OK to come out of the closet after you said ...