At first, when a child meets something that scares him, the fear grows, like a wave. But when he goes into the water and swims - gets used to the water - the wave grows small. If we pull the child away when the wave is high, he never sees that, never learns how to swim and remains afraid. If he gets a chance to feel strong, in control, that's called coping. When he copes, he feels better.


Time Bomb: An Alex Delaware Novel (ed. Ballantine Books, 2003) - ISBN: 9780345463784


At first, when a child meets something that scares him, the fear grows, like a wave. But when he goes into the water and swims - gets used to the...

At first, when a child meets something that scares him, the fear grows, like a wave. But when he goes into the water and swims - gets used to the...

At first, when a child meets something that scares him, the fear grows, like a wave. But when he goes into the water and swims - gets used to the...

At first, when a child meets something that scares him, the fear grows, like a wave. But when he goes into the water and swims - gets used to the...