Elizabeth Bowen Quotes

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Nobody can be kinder than the narcissist while you react to life in his own terms.

Elizabeth Bowen
Pity the selfishness of lovers: it is brief, a forlorn hope, it is impossible.

Elizabeth Bowen
All your youth you want to have your greatness taken for granted; when you find it taken for granted, you are unnerved.

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It is about five o'clock in an evening that the first hour of spring strikes—autumn arrives in the early morning, but spring at the close of a winter day.

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I suppose art is the only thing that can go on mattering once it has stopped hurting.

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When you love someone all your saved-up wishes start coming out.

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This is the worst of love, this unmeant mystification — someone smiling and going out without saying where, or a letter arriving, being read in your presence, put away, not explained, or: "No, alas, I can't to-night" on the telephone — that, one person having set up without knowing, the other cannot undo without the where? who? why? that brings them both down a peg. Jealousy is no more than feeling alone against smiling enemies.

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Nobody speaks the truth when there's something they must have.

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A romantic man often feels more uplifted with two women than with one: his love seems to hit the ideal mark somewhere between two different faces.

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I know that I have in my make-up layers of synthetic experiences, and that the most powerful of my memories are only half true.

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The best that an individual can do is to concentrate on what he or she can do, in the course of a burning effort to do it better.

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Short of a small range of physical acts-a fight, murder, lovemaking-dialogue is the most vigorous and visible inter-action of which characters in a novel are capable. Speech is what characters do to each other.

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Only in a house where one has learnt to be lonely does one have this solicitude for things. One's relation to them, the daily seeing or touching, begins to become love, and to lay one open to pain.

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One can suffer a convulsion of one's entire nature, and, unless it makes some noise, no one notices. It's not just that we are incurious; we completely lack any sense of each other's existences.

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But she had told them nothing, given them the stone of her abstract, colourless idealism while they sat there, open-mouthed for sentimental bread.

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Fashion seems to exist for an abstract person who is not you or me.

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We can surmount the anger we feel. To find oneself like a young tree inside a tomb is to discover the power to crack the tomb and grow up to any height.

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One should discuss one's difficulties only when they are over.

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The silence of a shut park does not sound like the country silence; it is tense and confined.

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Goodbyes breed a sort of distaste for whomever you say goodbye to; this hurts, you feel; this must not happen again.

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I became, and remain, my characters' close and intent watcher: their director, never.

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It is not only our fate but our business to lose innocence, and once we have lost that, it is futile to attempt a picnic in Eden.

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He diagnosed her as prey to one creeping growth, the Past, septic with what had happened.

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Nothing, that is say no one, can be such an inexorable tour-conductor as one's own conscience or sense of duty, if one allows either the upper hand: the self-bullying that goes on in the name of sight-seeing is grievous.

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Social activity right on top of a crisis had the same effect on Cecilia nervously as, on her inside, exercise taken too soon after a meal: undigested experience hung heavily on her spirit.

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