The task of worrying is to come up with positive solutions for life's perils by anticipating dangers before they arise. If we are preoccupied by worries, we have that must less attention to expend on figuring out the answers. Our worries become self-fulfilling prophecies, propelling us toward the very disaster they predict.

Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ (ed. Bantam, 2012) - ISBN: 9780553903201