Love is when I am concerned with your relationship with your own life, rather than with your relationship to mine.... there must be a commitment to each other's well-being. Most people who say they have a commitment don't; they have an attachment. Commitment means, "I am going to stick with you and support your experience of well-being." Attachment means, "I am stuck without you."

Actualizations: You Don't Have to Rehearse to be Yourself (ed. Doubleday, 1978)