We all remain who we are. But on the way to healing or liberation we have to do what the Romans called agere contra: we have to act against the grain of our natural compulsions. This requires clear decisions. Because it does not happen by itself, it is in a way "unnatural" or "supernatural"... (we) simply have to cut loose now and then, and in the process... make mistakes.
The Enneagram: A Christian Perspective (ed. Crossroad Publishing Company, 2001) - ISBN: 9780824519506