Why make yourself miserable saying things like, "Why do we have such bad luck? What has God done to us? What have we done to deserve this?" - all of which, if you understand reality and take it completely into your heart, are irrelevant and unsolvable. They are just things that nobody can know. Your situation is just an accident of life.

'What Do You Care What Other People Think?': Further Adventures of a Curious Character (ed. Penguin UK, 2007) - ISBN: 9780141937588