If we turn away from our sexual passion, then we freeze and beings are harmed. If we grab it, then we are burned and beings are harmed. But if we just stay close to it, walk around it, always in touch with the fact that we are sexual beings, neither identifying with nor distancing ourselves from our sexuality, then we gradually become intimate with it.
Being Upright: Zen Meditation and Bodhisattva Precepts (ed. Shambhala Publications, 2016) - ISBN: 9781930485594