Feminism means having a choice. And feminism doesn't care which choices you make, either. Just that you have them. The point has never been to establish some principled refusal to give yourself to another human being. The point is to make sure you can give yourself--or not give yourself--of your free will.

Tolstoy Lied: A Love Story (ed. Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 2007) - ISBN: 9780547527307