Doesn't it make you wonder about your own sexual identity, not to mention your sanity, that the two women you love are, respectively, a virtual woman existing only in the transient ansible connections between computers and a woman whose soul is in fact that of a man who is the husband of your mother?
Children Of The Mind: Book 4 of the Ender Saga (ed. Hachette UK, 2011) - ISBN: 9780748134236