The one who has the little need is the one who controls the whole relationship. You can see this dynamic so clearly because usually in every relationship there is one who loves the most and the other who doesn't love, who only takes advantage of the one who gives his or her heart. You can see the way they manipulate each other, their actions and reactions, and they are just like the provider and the drug addict.
The Mastery of Love: A Practical Guide to the Art of Relationship (ed. Amber-Allen Publishing, 2010) - ISBN: 9781934408032