Mourning has become unfashionable in the United States. The bereaved are supposed to pull themselves together as quickly as possible and to reweave the torn fabric of life.... we do not allow... for the weeks and months during which a loss is realized — a beautiful word that suggests the transmutation of the strange into something that is one's own.


A Way of Seeing (1970)


Mourning has become unfashionable in the United States. The bereaved are supposed to pull themselves together as quickly as possible and to reweave...

Mourning has become unfashionable in the United States. The bereaved are supposed to pull themselves together as quickly as possible and to reweave...

Mourning has become unfashionable in the United States. The bereaved are supposed to pull themselves together as quickly as possible and to reweave...

Mourning has become unfashionable in the United States. The bereaved are supposed to pull themselves together as quickly as possible and to reweave...