A man's fatherliness is enriched as much by his acceptance of his feminine and childlike strivings as it is by his memories of tender closeness with his own father. A man who has been able to accept tenderness from his father is able later in life to be tender with his own children.

Oneness and Separateness: From Infant to Individual (ed. Simon and Schuster, 1998) - ISBN: 9780684854069