Not that we would detract one iota from the benevolence which does exist in humanity ; there is both more gratitude and more cause for gratitude than it is the fashion now-a-days to admit: but this we do say, that the obligation is never from those on whom we have a claim. Kindness is always unexpected; and overcomes us like a summer cloud," exciting our "special wonder" as well as thankfulness.
Heath's book of Beauty, 1833 (1832)