Whatever the soul chooses to love, it will resemble. And therefore what we choose to love is important: Love is the force behind every level of existence. There is some good in every attraction, but there is a process of refining attraction, of choosing what to love, so that we are energized by a wider, purer love

Living Presence: A Sufi Way to Mindfulness and the Essential Self (ed. Tarcher, 1992)