When we fall in love, we hope — both egotistically and altruistically — that we shall be finally, truly seen: judged and approved. Of course, love does not always bring approval: being seen may just as well lead to a thumbs-down and a season in hell.


Nothing to Be Frightened Of (2008)

Julian Barnes Quotes

When we fall in love, we hope — both egotistically and altruistically — that we shall be finally, truly seen: judged and approved. Of course,...

When we fall in love, we hope — both egotistically and altruistically — that we shall be finally, truly seen: judged and approved. Of course,...

When we fall in love, we hope — both egotistically and altruistically — that we shall be finally, truly seen: judged and approved. Of course,...

When we fall in love, we hope — both egotistically and altruistically — that we shall be finally, truly seen: judged and approved. Of course,...