Another misconception is that if we truly loved someone, we will never finish with our grief, as if continued sorrow is a testimonial to our love. But true love does not need grief to support its truth. Love can last in a healthy and meaningful way, once our grief is dispelled. We can honor our dead more by the quality of our continued living than by our constantly remembering the past.
The Courage to Grieve: The Classic Guide to Creative Living, Recovery, and Growth Through Grief (ed. Harper Collins, 2009) - ISBN: 9780061873119