John Gray Quotes

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When a man can listen to a woman's feelings without getting angry and frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift.

John Gray
Christianity struck at the root of pagan tolerance of illusion. In claiming that there is only one true faith, it gave truth a supreme value it had not had before. It also made disbelief in the divine possible for the first time. The long-delayed consequence of Christian faith was an idolatry of truth that found its most complete expression in atheism. If we live in a world without gods, we have Christianity to thank for it.

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A woman's sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships.

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When a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer.

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A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results.

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To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesn't know what to do or that he can't do it on his own.

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The number one way a man can succeed in fulfilling a woman's primary love needs is through communication. By learning to listen to a woman's feelings, a man can effectively shower a woman with caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation, and reassurance....

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Just as a man is fulfilled through working out the intricate details of solving a problem, a woman is fulfilled through talking about the details of her problems.

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You may wish to be loving - you may even try with all your might - but your love will never be pure unless you are free from resentment. When we are free from resentment, loving is effortless. When we have to try hard to love, this is generally a sign that we are repressing our resentments....

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To grow in our ability to love ourselves we need to receive love as well.

John Gray