Once you best a man, never gloat. Be generous and find something in his actions to praise. He won't enjoy being bested but he'll make a good face about it. Show him you appreciate it. Praise can win you a friend. Gloating will only ever make enemies.
The Ruins of Gorlan (Ranger's Apprentice Book 1 ) (ed. Random House, 2011) - ISBN: 9781448100972