If you start praising your wife, if you start telling her how beautiful she is, and how glad you are to have her in your life, when you talk about the good, you will draw out the good. If you talk about the negative, you'll draw out the negative. It's up to you.
It's Your Time and Become a Better You Boxed Set (ed. Simon and Schuster, 2012) - ISBN: 9781471105197