The frequency of personal questions grows in direct proportion to your increasing girth.... No one would ask a man such a personally invasive question as "Is your wife having natural childbirth or is she planning to be knocked out?" But someone might ask that of you. No matter how much you wish for privacy, your pregnancy is a public event to which everyone feels invited.

Your Maternity Leave (ed. Poseidon Press, 1991) - ISBN: 9780671733667