View life as a learning opportunity. Ask God what He wants you to learn from the situations you face.... When we set aside specific time to listen, He often encourages us with His presence and promises, and interprets to some degree the circumstances of life. Take advantage of the natural lull after hard times when you're pulling together the pieces to sort through the events and ferret out the lessons.
Between Walden and the Whirlwind (ed. 1987) - ISBN: 9780891091776