If you want to know what you are here to do, how you can be more loving, or how to get through a difficult situation, my answer is always meditate. The difference between prayer and meditation is that when we pray, we are asking for something, and when we meditate, we are listening to the answer.
Watching Over Us: What the Spirits Can Teach Us About Life (ed. Random House, 2011) - ISBN: 9781448117451