One can give or withhold in a manner far more effective, sophisticated, useful, which is quite invisible to people who think that giving or withholding is done by external assessment. If you seek some mark of favour or 'promotion', know that you are not ready for it. Progress comes through capacity to learn, and is irresistible. Nobody can stand between you and knowledge if you are fit for it.

Learning how to Learn: Psychology and Spirituality in the Sufi Way (ed. Octagon Press Ltd, 1978) - ISBN: 9780900860591