Henri Nouwen Quote

A life without a lonely place, that is, a life without a quiet center, easily becomes destructive. When we cling to the results of our actions as our only way of self-identifiction, then we become possessive and defensive and tend to look at our fellow human beings more as enemies to be kept at a distance than as friends with whom we share the gifts of life.

The Dance of Life: Weaving Sorrows and Blessings Into One Joyful Step (ed. 2005)