Well, think of what I'm doing to you right now. For me I'm the self, and you're the object. For you, of course, it's the exact opposite—you're the self to you and I'm the object. And by exchanging self and object, we can project ourselves onto the other and gain self-consciousness. Volitionally. I still don't get it, but it sure feels good. That's the whole idea, the girl said.

Kafka on the Shore (ed. Vintage, 2005) - ISBN: 9781400044818