Harriet Lerner Quote

We cannot make another person change his or her steps to an old dance, but if we change our own steps, the dance no longer can continue in the same predictable pattern.

The dance of anger: a woman's guide to changing the patterns of intimate relationships (ed. HarperCollins Publishers, 1986) - ISBN: 9780060913564

We cannot make another person change his or her steps to an old dance, but if we change our own steps, the dance no longer can continue in the same...

We cannot make another person change his or her steps to an old dance, but if we change our own steps, the dance no longer can continue in the same...

We cannot make another person change his or her steps to an old dance, but if we change our own steps, the dance no longer can continue in the same...

We cannot make another person change his or her steps to an old dance, but if we change our own steps, the dance no longer can continue in the same...