We can endure much more than we think we can; all human experience testifies to that. All we need to do is learn not to be afraid of pain. Grit your teeth and let it hurt. Don't deny it, don't be overwhelmed by it. It will not last forever. One day, the pain will be gone and you will still be there.
When All You've Ever Wanted Isn't Enough: The Search For a Life That Matters (ed. Pan Macmillan, 2011) - ISBN: 9780330532235