There will never be a good time, financially, to get married, unless you're Shaq or Ray Romano. But somehow people manage. If your man is using money as an excuse not to marry you, it's your relationship that's insecure, not his bank account.
He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys (ed. Simon and Schuster, 2009) - ISBN: 9781416909774