We need to build our friendships on truth and wholeness. We need friends who can be with us in our loneliness, not people who will cheer us up so that we don't feel it. We need friends who get furious with us when we are not being real or true to ourselves, not when we don't do what they want us to do.

Appetites: On the Search for True Nourishment (ed. Penguin, 1997) - ISBN: 9781101554784