I think it is worse to be poor in mind than in purse, to be stunted and belittled in soul, made a coward, made a liar, made mean and slavish, accustomed to fawn and prevaricate, and "manage" by base arts a husband or a father,--I think this is worse than to be kicked with hobnailed shoes.
The Duties of Women: A Course of Lectures (ed. Cambridge University Press, 2010) - ISBN: 9781108021036