It is of course, entirely possible that men (or anyone who is relatively privileged) are most defensive, most obstinate and unseeing when they are worried about losing privileges.... In the reactions of husbands, I detect a haunting worry about what they will lose when true gender equality arrives.

Juggling: the unexpected advantages of balancing career and home for women and their families (ed. Touchstone, 1993) - ISBN: 9780029069110