Fay Weldon Quotes

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Fortunately, there is more to life than death. There is for one thing, fiction. A thousand thousand characters to be sent marching out into the world to divert time from its forward gallop to the terrible horizon.

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Had you never noticed the way the secret world sends our signs and symbols into the ordinary world? It delivers our messages in the form of coincidences: Still, it had been a good marriage as marriages go. And as marriages go, it went.

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Memory is so selective; wishful thinking presses it into service all the time.

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My children are ungrateful: they don't care. That is my great reward. They are free.

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By and large, nothing is as bad as you fear, or as good as you hope.

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The prophets of doom, in my experience, are generally ignored and usually right.

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Style is what's there when you look at someone's writing and you know that they wrote it and nobody else did.

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People hear what they want and expect to hear, not what is said.

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One tends to suspect others of what one is guilty of oneself. The unfaithful wife is quick to suspect the husband of infidelity.

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It's very unfashionable to say this, but rape actually isn't the worst thing that can happen to a woman if you're safe, alive and unmarked after the event.

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Poetry, I thought then, and still do, is a matter of space on the page interrupted by a few well-chosen words, to give them importance. Prose is a less grand affair which has to stretch to the edges of the page to be convincing.

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I have never got on with the quietist movements: they lapse too easily into self-congratulation: I have found the oneness, you have not. I prefer to look outside myself if I possibly can, not inside. Meditation reminds me too forcibly of being made to lie on a mat at nursery school and take an hour's nap.

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Widows tend either to fade away when husbands die, committing emotional suttee, or else find that a new life burgeons. Here in Christchurch, a lot of burgeoning goes on.

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Writers are always a great nuisance to publishers. If they could do without them, they would.

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'Instinct' usually just means our conditioning to believe this or believe that, without thinking to investigate.

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And then of course the babies came, and took us by surprise, as babies do. First, how much you love them, second, how much work they are, third, how difficult it is to leave them. We would rather sit and sing to them than get on with running a business.

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Push, rend, slither, pop, baby's here. Baby cries.

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No one should be allowed to give back the gift of life, unless they are very old and full of tears, when the body outlives the spirit, when they should be allowed to join the others who've already gone.

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Both Ron and I went to see our analysts twice a week so really there was no need to speak to each other.

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That to be good is to be happy is not something particularly evident in any of our experiences of real life, yet how badly we want it, and need it, to be true.

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Fiction stretches our sensibilities and our understanding, as mere information never can.

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Ambition will, and should, always outstrip achievement.

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A woman has all too much substance in a man's eyes at the best of times. That is why men like women to be slim. Her lack of flesh negates her. The less of her there is, the less notice he need take of her. The more like a male she appears to be, the safer he feels.

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I have four sons and three stepsons. I have learnt what it is like to step on Lego with bare feet.

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Marriage is a very difficult relationship for nearly everyone and I'm sure you shouldn't do it if you want a quiet little easy life.

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Pride is what you can afford or think you can afford.

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Of course you have to believe in destiny; that everything is sheer chance is an intolerable notion.

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Truly Alice, books are wonderful things; to sit alone in a room and laugh and cry, because you are reading, and still be safe when you close the book; and having finished it, discover you are changed, yet unchanged! To be able to visit the City of Invention at will, depart at will – that is all, really, education is about, should be about.

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Confidence is something one acquires. It can come early or late but it is impossible to write without it. Mine came late.

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A 'weakness,' I now realize, is nothing but a strength not properly developed.

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