Ernest Becker Quotes

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People create the reality they need in order to discover themselves

Ernest Becker
Modern man is drinking and drugging himself out of awareness, or he spends his time shopping, which is the same thing.

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What man really fears is not so much extinction, but extinction with insignificance.

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The artist takes in the world, but instead of being oppressed by it, he reworks it in his own personality and recreates it in the work of art.

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Once you base your whole life striving on a desperate lie, and try to implement that lie, you instrument your own undoing.

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One of the main reasons that it is so easy to march men off to war is that each of them feels sorry for the man next to him who will die.

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Men use one another to assure their personal victory over death.

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Man's natural and inevitable urge to deny mortality and achieve a heroic self-image are the root causes of human evil.

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When you confuse personal love and cosmic heroism you are bound to fail in both spheres. The impossibility of the heroism undermines the love, even if it is real. This double failure is what produces the sense of utter despair that we see in modern man... Love, then, is seen a religious problem

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If the love object is divine perfection, then one's own self is elevated by joining one's destiny to it... All our guilt, fear, and even our mortality itself can be purged in a perfect consummation with perfection itself.

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Each society is a hero system which promises victory over evil and death.

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Man cannot endure his own littleness unless he can translate it into meaningfulness on the largest possible level.

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Man is literally split in two: he has an awareness of his own splendid uniqueness in that he sticks out of nature with a towering majesty, and yet he goes back into the ground a few feet in order blindly and dumbly to rot and disappear forever.

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The road to creativity passes so close to the madhouse and often detours or ends there.

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Relationship is thus always slavery of a kind, which leaves a residue of guilt.

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It is fateful and ironic how the lie we need in order to live dooms us to a life that is never really ours.

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What does it mean to be a self-conscious animal? The idea is ludicrous, if it is not monstrous. It means to know that one is food for worms.

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The idea of death, the fear of it, haunts the human animal like nothing else; it is a mainspring of human activity - designed largely to avoid the fatality of death, to overcome it by denying in some way that it is the final destiny of man.

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What is the ideal for mental health, then? A lived, compelling illusion that does not lie about life, death, and reality; one honest enough to follow its own commandments: I mean, not to kill, not to take the lives of others to justify itself.

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The real world is simply too terrible to admit. it tells man that he is a small trembling animal who will someday decay and die. Culture changes all of this, makes man seem important, vital to the universe. immortal in some ways

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The creativity of people on the schizophrenic end of the human continuum is a creativity that springs from the inability to accept the standardized cultural denials of the real nature of experience. And the price of this kind of almost "extra human" creativity is to live on the brink of madness, as men have long known.

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The key to the creative type is that he is separated out of the common pool of shared meanings. There is something in his life experience that makes him take in the world as a problem; as a result he has to make personal sense out of it.

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The best existential analysis of the human condition leads directly into the problems of God and faith

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Mother nature is a brutal bitch, red in tooth and claw, who destroys what she creates.

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When we understand that man is the only animal who must create meaning, who must open a wedge into neutral nature, we already understand the essence of love. Love is the problem of an animal who must find life, create a dialogue with nature in order to experience his own being.

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I have reached far beyond my competence and have probably secured for good a reputation for flamboyant gestures. But the times still crowd me and give me no rest, and I see no way to avoid ambitious synthetic attempts; either we get some kind of grip on the accumulation of thought or we continue to wallow helplessly, to starve amidst plenty. So I gamble with science and write.

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Better guilt than the terrible burden of freedom and responsibility.

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We might say that psychoanalysis revealed to us the complex penalties of denying the truth of man's condition, what we might call the costs of pretending not to be mad.

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The man of knowledge in our time is bowed down under a burden he never imagined he would ever have: the overproduction of truth that cannot be consumed.

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The irony of man's condition is that the deepest need is to be free of the anxiety of death and annihilation; but it is life itself which awakens it, and so we must shrink from being fully alive.

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