Erica Jong - How to Save Your Own Life (1977)

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Where is Hollywood located? Chiefly between the ears. In that part of the American brain lately vacated by God.

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Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't...

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In a bad marriage, friends are the invisible glue. If we have enough friends, we may go on for years, intending to leave, talking about leaving – instead of actually getting up and leaving.

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Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it... It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more

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Having a baby with him meant marrying that face forever.

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The worst thing about jealousy is how low it makes you reach.

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Without sex it would be so easy to choose appropriate people to live with. Sex was the joker in an otherwise rational deck.

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... jealousy makes the prick grow harder. And the cunt wetter.

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Someday every woman will have orgasms — like every family has color TV — and we can all get on with the business of life.

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You try to start again but get into blaming over and over. Finally you are both worn out, exhausted, hopeless. Then lawyers are called in to pick clean the corpses.

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My body was flesh, which was only one step removed from shit, from clay, from dust.

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Unhappiness is our element. We come to believe we can't function without it.

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I only know that in our choice of friends and lovers and teachers who will change our lives, we are guided by forces which have nothing to do with the rationalizations we give.

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I convinced myself that sadness and compromise were the ways of the world...

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... the ocean kept falling into itself, gathering itself up, and falling into itself again.

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Many people today believe that cynicism requires courage. Actually, cynicism is the height of cowardice. It is innocence and open-heartedness that requires the true courage — however often we are hurt as a result of it.

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All people believe their suffering is greater than others.

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The future is merely a shadow which blocks out the joys of the present and emphasizes the miseries of the past.

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Loving someone is a loss of freedom — but one doesn't think of it as loss because one gains so much else.

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Jealousy is all the fun you think they had...

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If you apologize for something that isn't your fault in the first place, you, in effect, confirm their belief that it is your fault.

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Friends love misery... our misery is what endears us to our friends.

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What was the point of spending your life with someone you were always looking for ways to decieve?

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Photographs... are the most curious indicators of reality.

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Take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame.

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