But the question to precede all others, which finally determines the course of our lives is What do I really want? Was it to love what God commands, in the words of the collect, and to desire what He promises? Did I want what I wanted, or did I want what He wanted, no matter what it might cost?
Passion and Purity: Learning to Bring Your Love Life Under Christ's Control (ed. Revell, 2002) - ISBN: 9780800758189