To discover your real questions, simply take a time-out. Stop looking ahead of yourself at where you're going or backward at where you've been. When you do stop, there's a sense of going nowhere. There's a sense of gap, which is a tremendous relief. You can simply breathe and be who you are.

Rebel Buddha: On the Road to Freedom (ed. Shambhala Publications, 2010) - ISBN: 9781590308745