My idea of forgiveness is letting go of resentment that does not serve your better interest, ridding yourself of negative thoughts. All they do is make you miserable. Believe me, you can fret and fume all you want, but whoever it was that wronged you is not suffering from your anguish whatsoever.
Angels Along the Way: My Life with Help from Above (ed. Berkley, 1998) - ISBN: 9780425165737