Our higher needs include making full use of our gifts, finding and fulfilling our calling, being loved and cherished just for ourselves, and being in relationships that honor all of these. Such needs are fulfilled in an atmosphere of the five A's by which love is shown: attention, acceptance, appreciation, affection, and allowing.

Daring to Trust: Opening Ourselves to Real Love and Intimacy (ed. Shambhala Publications, 2011) - ISBN: 9781590309247