If I can listen to what he can tell me, if I can understand how it seems to him; if I can see its personal meaning for him, if I can sense the emotional flavor which it has for him, then I will be releasing potent forces of change in him.

On Becoming a Person: A Therapist's View of Psychotherapy (ed. Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 1995) - ISBN: 9780395755310