I want there to be a place in the world where people can engage in one another's differences in a way that is redemptive, full of hope and possibility. Not this In order to love you, I must make you something else. That's what domination is all about, that in order to be close to you, I must possess you, remake and recast you.
Reel to Real: Race, Sex, and Class at the Movies (ed. Psychology Press, 1996) - ISBN: 9780415918244