Alas! poor Milicent, what encouragement can I give you? - or what advice - except that it is better to make a bold stand now, though at the expense of disappointing and angering both mother and brother, and lover, than to devote your whole life, hereafter, to misery and vain regret?
Helen to Milicent (Ch. XXV : First Absence) - The Tenant of Wildfell Hall (1848)