Anyone who has ever been a mother or father and is at all honest knows from experience how difficult it can be for parents to accept certain aspects of their children. It is especially painful to have to admit this if we really love our child and want to respect his or her individuality yet are unable to do so.

For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence (ed. Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2002) - ISBN: 9781466806764