We don't exist unless there is someone who can see us existing, what we say has no meaning until someone can understand, while to be surrounded by friends is constantly to have our identity confirmed; their knowledge and care for us have the power to pull us from our numbness. In small comments, many of them teasing, they reveal they know our foibles and except them and so, in turn, accept that we have a place in the world.


Chapter II, Consolation For Not having Enough Money, p. 57 - The Consolations of Philosophy (2000)

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We don't exist unless there is someone who can see us existing, what we say has no meaning until someone can understand, while to be surrounded by...

We don't exist unless there is someone who can see us existing, what we say has no meaning until someone can understand, while to be surrounded by...

We don't exist unless there is someone who can see us existing, what we say has no meaning until someone can understand, while to be surrounded by...

We don't exist unless there is someone who can see us existing, what we say has no meaning until someone can understand, while to be surrounded by...